How to be confident
Hello, everybody. Today’s topic is about confidence.
Charies Caplin once said “you have to believe in yourself. That’s the secret of success. ”
Confident is a wonderful and important thing. Almost everyone wants to be confident. But the
question comes, how to be confident？Before answering, I want to talk about why you are not
confident. The reasons may so much. But I believe that the biggest problem is you haven’t
prepared well. (Ask a classmate) Nobody knows what is going to happen in the next second. So
the first step to be confident is getting ready to face the unknown challenges.
Ok. Now imagine you have done everything well, but you are still not confident enough to
talk in public. There are some methods can help you. When you get up everyday, try to talk to
yourself in front of a mirror. You can say: Hey guy, a new day is coming. I am going to be the
best. I am the most handsome and intelligent man in the world. Every girl will fall in love with me.
Haha, remember to keep it, I do it everyday, so I become such handsome and intelligent.
Em… Now your confident is in the rapid ascension. There are some catalysts can help
improve it growing. First you can pick a seat in the front the classroom. Sit in the front is to
establish confidence. Try it as a rule, from now on try to sit on. Sit the front will be visible, of
course, but remember that everything about success is visible. Second, you can practice looking at
others. A person's eyes can reveal a lot of information about himself. Dare not face up to others is
a sign of timidity and guilty. But to face the others bravely is equal to tell him: I am honest and
integrity, not guilty. In addition, I have a crazy method to overcome the fear. That is doing what
you fear most. For example, if you are afraid to strike up a conversation with girls, then you can
make a plan: Today I am going to talk with five girls. No matter talk about anything, just make a
conversation. And you should try to talk with ten girls the next day. The third day, fifteen. As time
passes, you will find that you have ability to talk with girls.
Confidence is the source of power. It enables us to take risks, try again when we fail and
enjoy our accomplishments when we win. Today I sent a word you: do what you want and fuck
the rest.
微信/支付宝扫码支付